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        • AnxietyAnxiety disorders are one of the most common mental health problems identified in children. Estimates of the rates of prevalence vary greatly from 8% to 27% lifetime prevalence by age 18. Chronic anxiety disorders are associated with increased risk of other serious mental health problems in later life. Therefore, early identification and treatment is key. Watch our information and real life experience films below or view and download our fact sheet and supporting presentation.
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        • TraumaTrauma in children may be: A one-off experience, such as a car crash Living in an atmosphere that feels unsafe, or where they are witness to violence Experiencing, or witnessing, harm Experiences of war, or of becoming a refugee Stressful and challenging experiences are a part of life, and most children will experience these at some point. This becomes traumatic if the event is more than a child can make sense of, or cope with. To learn more about Trauma in Children, please refer to our informational and real-life experiences videos.
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        • AnxietyIt is becoming increasingly common that children and young people in your school or classroom may be diagnosed with anxiety. Symptoms of anxiety in children vary, but it’s important that you are able to understand and recognise how this might affect learning in a classroom environment. It’s normal for everyone to feel anxious from time to time – it’s a normal response to stress. However, some young people may experience uncontrollable levels of anxiety that are excessive in relation to what’s happening around them –can therefore struggle with their day-to-day tasks and schoolwork. Common worries can become overwhelming for children and young people with anxiety leading to them becoming quite distressed. If this does happen there are a few ways in which you can respond to try and calm the situation. Some signs and symptoms to look out for include tears when entering school, being withdrawn from their peers, concentration difficulties, fidgeting, changes in appetite, and irritability. Download our factsheet for more information on what to look for if you suspect a child or young person in your class is suffering from anxiety. Getting the conversation going can be a good starting point – for example, planning lessons themed around…
        • DepressionDepression is a common yet serious mood disorder that involves a persistence of deep sadness, hopelessness, and numbness. Someone experiencing depressing may feel a constant melancholy that prevents them from enjoying their everyday life. Children and young people especially can feel alone and misunderstood which often stops them from expressing how they feel to people close to them. This isolation can lead to suicidal feelings, self-harm and, in a worst-case scenario, suicide. Parents and teachers are often the first to identify the symptoms of depression in children and young people. Some key symptoms of depression include excessive and persistent worry, moodiness, over or undereating, and self-harm. Some symptoms manifest in physical ways that are a little easier to spot as a teacher during school time such as frequent aches and pains, not wanting to play, either complete isolation or clinginess, and uncharacteristic irritability and anger. There are many risk factors at school that can lead a child to develop depression. As a teacher, you should be on the lookout for children experiencing bullying, social isolation, a lack of self-confidence, and an inability to keep up with schoolwork, among other factors. Children particularly vulnerable to depression are ones who experience abuse,…
        • OCDObsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition that involves repetitive, intrusive, and impulsive thoughts and images entering the mind, causing intense anxiety. As a result of this anxiety, the child or young person engages in compulsive or repetitive behaviours designed to ease their anxiety. They then obsessively repeat these behaviours to rid themselves of the anxiety, causing detriment to their daily life. Early signs of OCD can include excessive worrying and feeling a strong sense of responsibility over yourself and others. A child or young person will ask for constant reassurance about whether their homework is correct or whether they are doing something right or being a good student as they no longer trust their own judgement. As a teacher, these are early signs you can look out for which can inform how you approach the child going forward. Stress at school and bullying are key factors which exacerbate the development of OCD – the more overwhelmed a child feels, the more they give into their compulsive, repetitive behaviours to ease their anxiety. As a teacher, it is your duty to make sure the classroom is a safe space for all, keeping an eye on students who seem…
        • PTSDPTSD or post-traumatic stress disorder can be triggered in children and young people when they experience a particularly horrifying or scarring event. The cause can be as varied as a car crash or sexual assault. A child can develop PTSD if they are involved in this event, witnessed it, or even heard about it second-hand. It can be difficult to identify PTSD in children and young people, as they are reluctant to talk about the trauma they experienced as a way to protect themselves. However, there are some tell-tale signs of PTSD that you can look out for in your students. Children with PTSD will often have trouble concentrating and may even fall asleep during school time due to the lack of sleep they’re having at home, making learning much harder. A sudden plummet in grades is also a red flag – in such cases, it is important to check up on the student rather than reprimand them, which can cause further harm. PTSD also causes many children or young people to become highly irritable and angry due to the intense emotions they’re experiencing, often making them see other people as a threat. In this case, it is important to…
        • Eating DisordersAn eating disorder develops when a child’s and young person’s emotional well-being gets tangled up with their eating habits – for example, if their self-esteem is dependent on how much they eat or don’t eat. Eating disorders are most common in teenagers between the ages of 13 to 17 and they can manifest in a multitude of ways. Anorexia nervosa is a serious mental illness where a person has an intense fear of gaining weight, often accompanied by body dysmorphia – a distorted view of one’s body. This fear leads them to eat very little or nothing at all, leading to severe and potentially life-threatening weight loss. Bulimia nervosa is a serious mental illness that stems from being shamed about consuming large amounts of food, and your weight. A person will binge eat as much food as they can in a short space of time – this is often out of their control. They will then purge – making themselves throw up all the food they have eaten to avoid putting on weight from the binge. This leads to severe and potentially life-threatening weight loss. Binge eating is a serious mental illness which, similarly to Bulimia, involves consuming large amounts…
        • Self-harm in the ClassroomSelf-harm in children and young people happens when a person experiences an overwhelming flood of emotions such as guilt, shame, anger, hate, and a lack of control. This leads them to inflict deliberate harm upon themselves as a way to relieve the flood of emotions they are experiencing and punish themselves for feeling them in the first place. This can take the form of cutting themselves with sharp objects, over-eating or under-eating, pulling their hair out, burning themselves, and misusing intoxicants such as alcohol and drugs. Distress and overwhelming emotions often manifest during school time, and as a teacher it is important to have an awareness that school can be a trigger for students struggling with self-harming tendencies. Create a safe and open space for all students by letting your students know you are always here to support and hear them out whenever they need it. Common signs of self-harm include cuts, burns, and hair-pulling – these are easier to spot as they are often visible on the student’s body. However, young people can be very good at hiding their scars under long jumpers and trousers. If a student is adamant about keeping their jumper on even during hot temperatures,…
        • TraumaIf a child in your care is suffering with Trauma, they will be very distressed. This may be obvious, or it may show up in the form of physical ailments such as headaches or vomiting. They may show signs of regression in toileting or feeding, struggle with their schoolwork or find it difficult to concentrate. Watch our Informational film on Trauma and Children with Dr Sian Williams and Dr David Trickey to understand how children react to Trauma and how they can be helped.
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        • ADHDADHD, or Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder, presents itself in many ways which can sometimes make it difficult for teachers to spot the signs. It is characterised by difficulties in the areas of attention, level of activity and impulse control. ADHD is a recognised developmental disorder which can affect many areas of a child’s life – including in a learning environment. It is common for ADHD to be misdiagnosed in girls, as the symptoms of ADHD present differently to that of boys, and aren’t as commonly shared. One of the most important things you can do as a teacher for a student with ADHD is to learn and understand how they are feeling, and how they see the world around them. Sometimes for students with ADHD it may feel like nobody understands them. In this video, we go through our tips for teachers who have a child in their class who has Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Also, view our Practical Tips for Teachers in the Classroom below .
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        • Conduct Disorders/ODDODD, or oppositional defiant disorder, is diagnosed in children and young people that are persistently and repetitively antisocial, disobedient, have frequent tantrums, can not listen to authority, and purposely harm others. Conduct disorders are the most common disorders in children and are more frequent in boys, with 7% of boys and 3% of girls meeting the criteria for conduct disorders. It is normal for children and young people to be defiant towards authority to some degree, but if a particular student stands out from the others in your class and is perpetually defiant, violent and resentful towards others, this can develop into ODD. A child or young person with ODD will often engage in a range of violent and destructive behaviours such as fighting, temper tantrums, arguing with adults and peers, and lying and blaming others for their behaviour. In some extreme cases, the child or young person may engage in being cruel to animals and starting fires. As a teacher, it can be difficult to know how to handle a student with ODD in a way that ensures they make the most of their learning and helps their behaviours and social relationships. However, there are things you can do…
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Fact Sheets / Anxiety in Children

Anxiety in Children

Anxiety disorders are one of the most common mental health problems identified in children. Estimates of the rates of prevalence vary greatly from 8% to 27% lifetime prevalence by age 18.

Chronic anxiety disorders are associated with increased risk of other serious mental health problems in later life. Therefore, early identification and treatment is key.

Normal fears vs Anxiety Disorder

Fears and worries are a normal part of child development and the content of fears change according to the individual’s developmental stage.

Anxiety disorders occur when the intensity of the fear or worry is so high that it starts to impact on the child’s functioning and well-being and/or when the anxiety is out of context with their developmental stage.

‘Normal’ fears in development

  • Infancy
    • Loud noises
    • Heights
    • Loss of physical support
  • 1-2 years
    • Strangers
    • Toileting activities
    • Being injured
  • 3-5 years
    • Animals
    • Monsters
    • The dark
    • Being alone
  • 6-9 years
    • Animals
    • Lightning and thunder
    • Personal safety/injury
    • School
    • Death
  • 9-12 years
    • Tests
    • Personal health
  • 13 years
    • Social interactions
    • Personal injury
    • Economics and politics

Main Key Symptoms

Physiological symptoms of anxiety:

  • This is the innate fight or flight reaction that occurs in the body in situations of fear or danger.
  • In children with anxiety disorders this response is activated in feared situations, for example being away from parent (separation anxiety), having to speak to a teacher (selective mutism).
  • Symptoms include heart beating faster, sweating, shortness of breath, tension in muscles, shakiness, nausea, headaches.
  • Negative thoughts or worries:
  • These will often be ‘what if’ thoughts about what will happen in the future and their ability to cope with this. These can often be extreme and unrealistic (for example, the worst thing that could possibly happen).
  • Thoughts can take the form of rumination about past events (such as, a child with social anxiety replaying a difficult interaction with peers).
  • Thoughts may often be associated with vivid and detailed images of the worst thing happening, which can increase physiological arousal.
  • The young person may spend a significant amount of time focusing on these worries and may develop worries about worrying itself.

Avoidance:

  • Marked avoidance of feared situations for example, particular places, people, animals or objects.
  • They may start to avoid situations that they previously used to enjoy such as birthday parties.
  • This avoidance may begin in a few situations but can easily become more generalised and have a significant impact on functioning, such as school avoidance.

Safety behaviours:

  • Young people with anxiety disorders may develop certain ways or routines for doing things or need to have certain items with them as they feel this will help to keep them ‘safe’. These are known as safety behaviours. For example, always having to carry water or mints with you if you are fearful of being sick and being unable to leave the house without these items.
  • Reassurance seeking from caregivers can be crucial safety behaviour in children with anxiety disorders.
  • Safety behaviours may give some initial relief from anxiety. However, this is often short-lived and in the long-term safety behaviours actually maintain anxiety.
  • Children may show increased distress if they are unable to carry out a safety behaviour.

Prolonged anxiety can often lead to feelings of low mood and there is a high comorbidity between anxiety and depression.

Special characteristics in pre-school and school aged children

Tantrums/behavioural outbursts:

  • These may be frequent, severe, and appear out of context with the situation. The child may find it difficult to name what is making them angry or distressed and may direct aggression towards primary caregivers.
  • Behavioural outbursts can include crying, shouting, screaming, banging or throwing objects and in extreme cases may result in lashing out or physical aggression.
  • Care should be taken to understand difficulties leading to a behavioural outburst. However, relevant age appropriate consequences/boundaries should still be enforced for problematic behaviour, as would be the case with any child.

Problems with sleep, including nightmares about feared situations:

  • Worrying at bedtime can be very common for children and young people. This is often a time when there are fewer distractions for their worries. They may have fears about being left alone at night. This can impact on their ability to fall asleep and may lead to waking up in the night.

  • Children may also experience nightmares or bad dreams linked to situations in the past or their worries about the future.

  • Younger children may struggle to sleep on their own and may request to sleep in parent’s room or sleep with the light on.

Friendships:

  • Anxiety disorders can lead to difficulties in peer relationships, with young people finding it hard to make and sustain friendships.

Separation from adults:

  • Children may feel safer with adults who are perceived as being able to cope if fears come true. They may become clingy and not wanting to separate from caregivers. This, in turn, can further impact on friendships due to missing out on social situations as they do not want to be away from caregivers
  • At school, children may want to spend time with teachers or lunchtime staff during break times.

Illness:

  • Children and young people may often confuse the physiological symptoms of anxiety as signs of illness. This often serves to heighten anxiety, making the physical symptoms worse and reinforcing the belief that there is something wrong. For example, tummy aches and developing a fear of being sick.
  • Children may also cite physical symptoms as reasons not to attend school or social situations in order to avoid or escape feared situations.

Other common symptoms associated with anxiety disorders, but also with depression, are:

  • not being able to concentrate
  • irritability
  • lacking enjoyment
  • tearfulness
  • moodiness

Risk factors for developing anxiety disorders

General risk factors are:

  • Genetics/temperament – Children may be naturally predisposed to have a more anxious temperament. There may be a history of anxiety disorders or mental health difficulties in the family, leading to an increased risk of the young person developing a disorder.
  • Bullying and problems with peers – young people that have experienced bullying or that are isolated and have difficulties with friendships at school may be more likely to develop an anxiety disorder.
  • Being exposed to adversity including parental separation, ill health or bereavement, or more traumatic experiences such as accidents or child abuse.
  • School problems – falling behind or struggling with schoolwork may lead to increased anxiety.
  • Direct experience with feared stimuli (traumas, embarrassing events, negative experiences with specific phobias, such as dogs or needles)
  • Parents’ or caregivers’ own anxiety can impact on children by modelling anxious behaviour. For example:
    • Receiving rewards or reinforcement for fearing/avoiding certain situations or stimuli
    • Being repeatedly told that certain situations/people/stimuli are highly dangerous
    • Witnessing others talk/behave in fearful ways

*The more risk factors the more likely it is that a child could develop an anxiety disorder

Watchful waiting

A parent or teacher may not need to refer immediately to a healthcare professional if the anxiety is mild. Instead they may keep an eye on the child and offer support. If the symptoms persist or worsen then they may consider consulting with the GP and discussing whether a referral to a health care professional would be beneficial.

How to help a child with anxiety

  • talk to the child about cause of anxiety
  • make links between physical sensations and anxiety – normalise these sensations
  • if possible, encourage child to face feared situation in a way that feels manageable for them

When to refer a child with anxiety

When anxiety persists, or gets worse and when it impacts on functioning for example, refusing to go to school.

Whom to refer a child with anxiety to

The GP or the Special Educational Needs Coordinator (SENCO) or school nurse.

What are the treatments offered for anxiety?

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is the main recommended treatment for children and young people with anxiety disorders (looking at how the child’s problems, feelings, thoughts and behaviour all fit together and influence each other)

Research suggests that the crucial component in any anxiety disorder treatment is exposure to the feared stimulus (either imaginal or in vivo)

With younger children, treatment should routinely involve the parents/caregivers in order for them to be able to support with exposure outside of sessions.

Treatment in serious cases of anxiety

When the anxiety symptoms are severe and persist despite psychological forms of treatment, pharmacological treatment may be considered. It should always be administered in conjunction with continued psychological support and treatment. Medication can only be prescribed by a psychiatrist specialising in the mental health of children and young people.

Dr Tessa Crombie and Dr Jessica Richardson
South London and Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust

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